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Aug 4 (THAINDIAN NEWS) According to an author and a former mistress Holly Hill, allowing your man to cheat could save your marriage. In what many feel is an absurd idea, Hill says that if you allow your husband to sleep with other women, then you will be able to hold on to him.

“One of the main things that I have learned is that a woman that negotiates infidelity with her partner is far more powerful than a woman who is sitting home wondering why he’s late from the office Christmas party,” she claims.

Hill has written a memoir entitled “Sugarbabe” which tell readers all about her yearlong experience with quite a few “sugar daddies”. Holly Hill is a pen name for the author, whose book has sold 24,000 copies in her home of Australia and was just released in the United Sates, according to her publisher.

“I thought it was men that would like the book,” Hill says, “But in fact it’s women, because what it says to women is that if your man cheats on you, he still loves you, and he’s probably running about average.”

But psychology professor Lawrence Josephs states that personality type is more likely than gender to determine who will cheat. Those with narcissistic personalities, no matter whether they are male of female, are more likely to cheat. These people feel that they are entitled to it. They have what is called an avoidant attachment style, which means they are able to have sex with no feelings. These people are most likely to cheat.